Ralph

I found this site while looking for some answers to my wife's current condition. My wife is stage IV and the cancer has metastized to her liver. She is at a stage were she is off balance and face and body are very puffy. We are both 30 and have a daughter who just turned 3 two days ago. My wife was not able to stay for the whole party because of nausea. I am still in denial for the reason that when I think of life without her, I break down. If it was not for my daughter and my wife, fighting to live I don't know how I would survive. I know it is going to be hard but there are people who must have it worse then we do. I feel selfish when thoughts go threw my mind that nothing matters to me in the world but my wife. Other people's problems seem to not even compare. Alot of people come to me for advice becuase of my position as a manager and each one I listen too I want to break in and say " you call that a problem!! listen to this!!" but I respect each individual and their situations. Is there any way to stop the pain we feel for our spouse's, family members, or friends we watch fighting for their live's in front of us? How do you talk to your children who have no idea what's going on and let them know to enjoy this time with mummy because it may be the last? If you have any answers or ideas to help in this situation please drop me a line.

Ralph MacDonald

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